I had a guest that misunderstood the "use of kitchen" and when arrived, before the person in charge for that day began to cook, he began to cook without asking anything. I thought he was preparing some kind of surprise, so I continued to prepare the table while other people prepared dinner (delayed a bit since he had occupied two of the fires).
And I saw at moment of serving that he had prepared the food for himself, with his ingredients, and did not accepted anything from our meal, nor offered anything from his one.
I told him clearly that was not happy about this. Next day at 1930 (dinner already in phase of preparation) called telling that would not have come back for dinner, but arrived during our dinner and went immediately to bed.
Should i remove the use of kitchen or there is a way to specify "you can use the kitchen, if you want to prepare a meal for all the people that is present" ?
[Note from editor: Topic was moved to a better forum. 2014-09-22]